You don’t have to tell anyone you’re suffering when you’re filled with grief over the loss of a loved one. It’s clear to all.
What is less clear to others is when you’re suffering because you put your heart and soul into something and it went south. Or maybe you’ve been feeling sick or depressed, or perhaps the effort of dealing with a difficult issue is tearing you apart.
During my most trying times, I created rituals to follow which gave me room to breathe. And I continue to use them today whenever problems arise, or I’m stuck and can’t seem to pull myself out of a state.
I listened to healing words, read uplifting texts and took walks in nature. Mostly at the same time every day.
Creating habits that managed my low emotional and physical energy meant I created comfort for myself.
It was my recovery phase.
Whatever troubles or problems you currently have, keep the faith. Your most difficult moments can lead to your greatest hours.
This might be a difficult time. Be patient and compassionate with yourself.
The time will come when you’re ready to pick up the pieces, when you’re ready to say ‘ no matter how difficult this is’ I’m going to move on.
One day at a time. One moment at a time you can build yourself back up. Do what needs to be done today, don’t focus on tomorrow or next week.
Your future won’t arrive all at once, but steadily one day at a time. And for now, just getting through the day is all we can ask.
The truth is nothing lasts for ever, including pain.
Even your darkest moments only last for so long. So it’s important that you don’t use all your energy to hang on to the past. Feel it, without getting lost in thoughts of why this happened to you, and then reach for that little whisper of hope that says you will be okay.
It’s hard to believe in something better. It’s hard to believe that things will get easier because we can’t help but view our world through our current lack, or loss, or limitation and naturally from that perspective, it seems impossible.
But you are more than physical, you are a spiritual being too.
The secret is to remove your attention from your present reality
Simple. Every day take your attention from the outer world of reality, and using the power of your imagination, see yourself experiencing the ideal you desire.
Breathe deeply. Inhale fresh life giving energy.
For a few moments in time you and your ideal are one. For a few moments, in your sacred space, believe you have something that’s infinitely more powerful than any problem or heartbreak.
Dare to believe and you’ll become a magnet for miracles, for that new state of mind that, right now, only exists in your imagination.
You’ll be picking yourself up and starting over one step and a time, and eventually, when you look back, you’ll see you climbed a mountain.
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