Saturday, April 16, 2016

Personal Development Tips To Overcome Self Defeating Behavior

The other kind of people, the one’s who embrace change, are fewer and far between. These people understand infinity, they understand that if something is taken from them another thing replaces it, they know to look inside when they need something to change. They know what personal development is.
The economy seems to be having detrimental effects on even some of the most stable businessesnow. More and more people are losing their jobs or having their hours cut. This is causing them to seek out new jobs in a really difficult job market. Some people are turning to personal development books to help them with the self improvement ideals necessary to be successful.
Personal development focuses on goals and visions, which is in contrast with just learning for the acquisition of knowledge. Through setting goals people take control of their lives and destiny and contribute to the betterment of society in general as well. Attaining goals moves humankind forward, one goal at a time. This way it contributes to the aspirations ofgroups of people, being led by a concept of developing the self.
Personal development helps you to be a leader and lead others through tough situations. It helps you control what going on in your life so in turn you have the ability to help others. This makes a great leader, someone that help build others up instead of break others down. I would say that John Maxwell’s books would be a great start for anyone interested in learning about leadership.
My first book that I read to help prove myself was Rich Dad Poor Dad believe it or not. The only reason I read that was simply because I was with a real estate company and they could stop talking about how much this book help them out. So I figured I give it a chance, so actually I was thinking I was reading on how to invest in real estate.
Getting back on track, creating a positive mindset is a process that takes time to build because your not-so-positive or negative mindset took time to build too. So you have to un-think what you think and start thinking a new way. Normally the average person finds this difficult to do on a solo basis, so I suggest you find a personal development coach or mentor that can guide you only the way, like me. Not someone who can just teach you but someone who has been through the same process that you are attempting to go through. I did not say people who teach creating a positive mindset cannot help you, I believe it is better when someone has went through the same process you are enduring because there is a better understanding.
success coach or mentor is great to have when you begin your journey of creating your positive mindset. If you do not have the financial means, or access, to a success coach or mentor, then I suggest you start reading personal development books from authors that appeal to your personality type. Joining a personal development book club also helps because it keeps you on track with the books to read in helping you create a positive mindset. These book clubs are rare, but there is a book club at www.loepworldwide.com/page/book-club that is open to the public and free to join. The point is to find a vehicle to move you faster than you would on your journey to a positive mindset. Once you have the courage to start on your journey, you must have the courage to continue your journey.
As humans, it is in our nature to develop and better ourselves. Therefore, personal development is important to us. Each day we do new things and learn new things in the hope of becoming a better person. However, most of our personal development comes without a structure. We may decide to take action or not on a spontaneous basis. This approach can delay our personal development.


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Joseph Montes


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